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Dream drummer

Dream drummer

“Three times this week I dreamed I was the new drummer for American band Blink 182,” said Brad, calling PowerFM’s PowerPack Breakfast show where I was interpreting dreams.

The drums were bike powered, and the faster Brad peddled, the better the drums sounded. Although he can’t play the drums in waking life, he was a brilliant drummer in his dreams, and the crowds loved it almost as much as he did.

There was no performance anxiety. It wasn’t one of those dreams where you’re asked to perform but it all goes wrong, or you forget the music, or the drums turn to jelly. Brad simply stepped up to the drums, got on the bike, peddled away, and turned in a great performance.

A feel-good dream, three times in one week, must mean something good. But what?

Being radio, there was no time to spend an hour deeply exploring Brad’s dream, but there was time enough in the few minutes we had to get to the main point and give Brad something meaningful to help him forward.

Travis Barker Blink 182

Blink 182 drummer, Travis Barker, was unable to join them for the Australian tour because of his fear of flying.

I needed to be filled in on the details. Blink 182 was heading to Australia on tour that week, but their drummer, Travis Barker, was unable to join them because of his fear of flying. He was one of only two survivors of a plane crash in 2008. He lost two of his best friends in the crash, and the other survivor died the next year following an accidental drug overdose.

Travis Barker was replaced by Brooks Wackerman of Tenacious D in the waking life Australian tour, and by Brad in his dreams.

In Brad’s dream, he had no fear. No fear of playing the drums, no fear of flying. He stepped up to the plate and peddled his bike, and the more legwork he put in, the better he played.

My radio time was running out. “There’s somewhere in your life where you’re scared, but once you commit to it and put in the legwork, you can achieve it and you will enjoy it.”

“Spot on, dream lady,” Brad chuckled.

Brooks Wackerman

Travis Barker was replaced by Brooks Wackerman of Tenacious D in the waking life Australian tour, and by Brad in his dreams.

Our dreams reflect our conscious and unconscious experiences, feelings, and beliefs, and more often than not our unconscious holds us back. In a dream like Brad’s, his unconscious perspective was supportive. Whatever fear had been holding Brad back, something had shifted during the week of his three dreams. Maybe the fear was still there, but the motivation to overcome it kicked in. Or maybe Brad released the fear that week. We didn’t have time to discover more, but Brad now has his formula. He has an opportunity, his unconscious mind is supportive, and all he needs to do is turn up and put in the legwork.

Of course it’s not about drumming. No doubt Brad had heard about Travis Barker’s fear of flying – the media had the story – and unconsciously related to Travis missing an opportunity due to fear. It resonated with his own history of missing an opportunity due to fear, and when his dreaming mind processed this it naturally came up with the perfect dream metaphor.

Legwork

He has an opportunity, his unconscious mind is supportive, and all he needs to do is turn up and put in the legwork.

Brad’s “Spot on, dream lady,” tells us that Brad knows what the opportunity is and what to do about it.

Brad could add some dream alchemy to enhance his confidence. He could visualise peddling that dream bike, drumming those dream drums, tuning back into the dream feeling of enjoyment, and the more he does this, the more his confidence will grow, and suddenly he will find himself doing the legwork that brings enjoyment and fulfilment into his waking life.

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Have you ever met and deeply related with a celebrity or well-known public figure in a dream? How did you feel when you woke up and recalled the dream? Did you feel as if you really made contact, as if it were more than a dream? Did you feel inspired, or energised in some way?

Earlier this week, I was called onto Sydney’s Mix106.5 Rosso and Claire breakfast show to comment on Rosso’s dream.

Rosso dreamed Led Zeppelin frontman Robert Plant sang on stage with him then gave him his phone number.

Rosso dreamed Led Zeppelin frontman Robert Plant sang on stage with him then gave him his phone number.

“I used to play in a band, and in my dream I was back in the band when Led Zeppelin frontman Robert Plant jumped up on stage to sing with us,” Rosso began. “Then he gave me his phone number and suggested we meet up at the Byron Bay Bluesfest.”

Rosso described his dream as the best dream he’d ever had, and he was clearly excited about it. The sensuality of the dream – hearing, singing, and playing the music – combined with feeling the close connection with a legend, had left its mark. I guess in many ways Rosso felt touched by his dream, inspired and energised by his experience within the dream, but curious about why he should dream this now that his own band days are past.

What does it mean? We’ll come to that.

What’s the most memorable dream you’ve had? Was it a scary or dark dream, or was it positive and inspiring? How many of your senses were vividly engaged in the dream: sight, sound, touch, smell, taste? How deeply was your heart connected in your dream: emotions, feelings? How difficult did you find it to describe the magic and power of your dream to anyone the next day? There’s a numinous quality to these highly sensual, energising dreams that’s challenging to put into words. The most amazing dream you’ve ever had can sound straightforward to others. There’s an element that’s easily lost in translation but profoundly found within the self.

When you tell someone about a special dream, there’s an element that’s easily lost in translation but profoundly found within the self.

When you tell someone about a special dream, there’s an element that’s easily lost in translation but profoundly found within the self.

If you’ve experienced a soul mate dream, you’ll know this feeling well. In the classic soul mate dream, you meet a special charismatic someone, and experience a deep connection that touches your heart and soul and spills over into your waking life. That dream soul mate can be someone you’ve never met, and many a dreamer has fruitlessly searched for years for the person they met in their dream – with no success because the dream mate, no matter how convincing, is a marvellous creation of the dreamer’s mind.

That dream soul mate can also be someone you do know in waking life, someone in your circle, someone you’ve been in relationship with or hope to be in relationship with, or someone you barely know anything about. Again, the classic dream is compelling, the senses impassioned, the heart and soul energised, a feeling of deep connection, of finally finding something that has been missing in your life. If you have this dream, don’t think for a moment that the actions, emotions, and feelings the person demonstrated in your dream are intended by their waking life lookalike. Hard though it may be to believe, your dreaming mind chose that person as a perfect symbol of something you feel is missing, or something you’d like to connect with, in your life. Something, not someone. And that symbol is all in your mind too. You may see Joe as confident and supportive, while someone else might see Joe as confident and self-centred, and Joe might see himself as lacking in confidence and trying to make up for it with bravado. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So are all other qualities. The Joe in your dream is not the Joe you know or vaguely know in waking life, so don’t go looking for a deep relationship with Joe based on a fabulous dream, no matter how compelling. Instead, seek to connect with those soul mate qualities within your own heart and soul. In this example, reconnect with the confidence you had lost, and reconnect with a sense of support for your beautiful self, a support that has perhaps wavered in the face of negative self criticism.

So let’s return to Rosso’s dream about a new deep and heartfelt connection with Robert Plant.

Wish fulfilment is not the explanation for this dream.

Wish fulfilment is not the explanation for this dream.

Rosso knew, before his dream, that Robert Plant is headlining this year’s Byron Bay Bluesfest, but wish fulfilment is not the explanation for this dream (or a meaningfully rewarding avenue of exploration for any dream). I asked Rosso which three words he would choose to describe Robert Plant’s personality.

“Cool, outgoing, legend,” he replied.

When you’re asked to quickly describe someone’s personality in three words, it usually turns out that at least one of those words helps explain their character role in your dream. Rosso and I would need an hour to really flesh out the meaning of his dream – and without thousands of people listening in on the radio – but here’s the essence:

Like all dreams, Rosso’s dream reflects the last 24-48 hours. Our dreams are the result of our minds processing the last one to two days, trying to make sense of our world. In trying to make sense of our world, our dreaming minds compare our recent experiences with our past experiences, then, armed with this most recent update of our individual model of life as we know it, some dreams may project forward to preview the future according to that model. To test it out in our imagination. Rosso’s recent experiences resonated with his old band days, and, in his dream, he experienced a deep connection with “cool, outgoing, legend” that he then projected into the future as a new way of being.

In a sense, Rosso “got the number” of a Robert Plant energy within himself that he’s ready to reconnect with and energise.

In a sense, Rosso “got the number” of a Robert Plant energy within himself that he’s ready to reconnect with and energise.

In a sense, he “got the number” of a Robert Plant energy within himself that he’s ready to reconnect with and energise. What a wonderful dream!

Rosso may go to this year’s Bluesfest, and, if he does, he’ll attend Robert Plant’s concert. Who knows, as a media personality himself, Rosso may get to chat with Robert, may even get his phone number or socialise into the evening. Or maybe not. Either way, life’s deepest rewards are those that energise your own heart and soul, that inspire you to find what has been lost, to reconnect with a greater part of your being, to live life bigger and brighter, to walk up to the microphone and sing with all your heart – literally or metaphorically. To be fully alive to the moment. Understanding such dreams can take you there.

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Ideas from dreams

Ideas from dreams

What have Robert Louis Stevenson, Stephen King, and Stephanie Myer got in common? They’re world famous authors, they’ve written dark novels (horror or vampires), and they share similar names. But that’s not all. They’ve each based at least one of their books on a dream.

Stephanie Myer had written a chapter here and there over the years, but had never completed a book. Then one night she dreamed of an intense conversation between an “average girl” and a “fantastically beautiful, sparkly” guy who was also a vampire. They were falling in love yet the vampire, intoxicated by the scent of the girl’s blood, was having difficulty holding back from killing her. What should they do?

On waking, intoxicated by the scent of a compelling question and a good story and not wanting to lose the dream, Myer typed it out.

On waking, intoxicated by the scent of a compelling question and a good story and not wanting to lose the dream, Myer typed it out.

On waking, intoxicated by the scent of a compelling question and a good story and not wanting to lose the dream, Myer typed it out. From there she was hooked, writing every day. The book became Twilight, and the dream was embodied in Chapter 13. Within six months of the dream, the book was written and accepted for publication, then there was the movie, and to date 116 million copies of the Twilight saga have been sold worldwide. All inspired by a dream.

Stephen King is on record for rubbishing Myer’s writing ability, yet understands the dream thing, having used several of his own dreams for ideas for his novels. Misery, he told Stan Nicholls, began with a dream:

“”I fell asleep on the plane,” he recalls, “and dreamt about a woman who held a writer prisoner and killed him, skinned him, fed the remains to her pig and bound his novel in human skin. His skin, the writer’s skin. I said to myself, ‘I have to write this story.’ Of course, the plot changed quite a bit in the telling.”"

When interviewed in 26 Writers Talk About Their Dreams and the Creative Process, by Naomi Epel, King said: “One of the things that I’ve been able to use dreams for in my stories is to show things in a symbolic way that I wouldn’t want to come right out and say directly. I’ve always used dreams the way you’d use mirrors to look at something you couldn’t see head-on—the way that you use a mirror to look at your hair in the back. To me that’s what dreams are supposed to do. I think that dreams are a way that people’s mind’s illustrate the nature of their problems. Or maybe even illustrate the answers to their problems in symbolic language.”

Robert Louis Stephenson had a problem, as he described in A Chapter on Dreams in Across the Plains (1892):

For two days I went about racking my brains for a plot of any sort; and on the second night I dreamed the scene at the window - Robert Louis Stevenson

For two days I went about racking my brains for a plot of any sort; and on the second night I dreamed the scene at the window – Robert Louis Stevenson

He had been trying to find a story, “a body, a vehicle, for that strong sense of man’s double being which must at times come in upon and overwhelm the mind of every thinking creature.” His search intensified until, “For two days I went about racking my brains for a plot of any sort; and on the second night I dreamed the scene at the window, and a scene afterward split in two, in which Hyde, pursued for some crime, took the powder and underwent the change in the presence of his pursuers. All the rest was made awake, and consciously …”

It was 1866, and The Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde was “conceived, written, re-written, re-re-written, and printed inside ten weeks.”

Dreams have inspired novels, art, music, and movies throughout time, sometimes arriving seemingly spontaneously (Paul McCartney awoke, in 1965, from a dream in which he heard a classical string ensemble playing a “lovely tune”, which he captured immediately on piano and named Yesterday) and sometimes arriving as solutions to artists’ block or petitioned prayers to the creative muse before sleep.

Albert Einstein traced the roots of his Theory of Relativity to a dream he had as a young boy. He dreamed he rode a sledge, faster and faster until he was travelling as fast as light.

Scientists have slept on unresolved problems and awoken with dream solutions such as molecular structures (Friedrich Kekule’s 19th century dream of a snake swallowing its tail led to his realisation that the molecular structure of benzene was a ring, not an open-ended chain), and key experiments (Otto Loewi dreamed a neurophysiology experimental method that led to his 1936 Nobel prize for his discovery of chemical neurotransmitters).

Many an inventor has taken a problem to bed and found the solution in a dream.

Many an inventor has taken a problem to bed and found the solution in a dream. How did a dream of cannibals lead to the invention of this sewing machine?

Many an inventor has taken a problem to bed and found the solution in a dream. In the 1840’s, Elias Howe was sweating on the problem of inventing a sewing machine that worked efficiently. He dreamed he was surrounded by cannibals who were about to eat him. Each cannibal thumped his spear on the ground, until, just before the critical moment, Elias noticed that just behind the tip of each spear was a hole. He woke up in the nick of time, and that’s where the hole in the sewing machine needle is to this day. Howe patented the lockstitch mechanism (where the needle takes the thread through the fabric and locks it with a second thread from a spool beneath the fabric) in 1846.

In each of these examples, the dreamer was satisfied with the idea or solution the dream presented, though closer examination of the dreams would have added personal insight.

In each of these examples, the dreamer was satisfied with the idea or solution the dream presented, though closer examination of the dreams would have added personal insight.

In each of these examples, the dreamer was satisfied with the idea or solution the dream presented, though closer examination of the dreams would have added personal insight. Just look at Howe’s theme about sweating on being eaten alive! The search for a solution to the sewing machine problem was potentially consuming him. And King’s dream theme explores unconsciously feeling ransomed and restricted by fear of vulnerability.

Dreams are the result of your dreaming mind and brain processing your conscious and unconscious experiences of the last 24-48 hours. These experiences include emotions, feelings, issues, challenges, unresolved problems, new learning, new or shifted  perspectives, ideas, and insights. These recent experiences are compared to similar past experiences (which is why you often see symbols from your past in your dreams) and your dreaming mind then either consolidates your long held beliefs about life or creates new ones. In this way, interpreting a dream enables you to understand your mindset, the old beliefs that work well for you, the old beliefs that keep you stuck or work against more beneficial outcomes, and the new beliefs and fresh perspectives that will influence you into your future.

Recurring, unresolved dreams usually reflect recurring, unresolved issues or ways of seeing the world or seeing a problem. On those magical nights when your dreaming brain gets past old stuck beliefs and ways of seeing the world, you may wake up with a brilliant idea, whether that is an insight into a relationship issue, a new way of doing business, a solution to writers’ block, or a long sought plot for a novel.

You can precipitate this by contemplating the precise problem you want to solve as you fall asleep. Clearly Robert Louis Stevenson and Elias Howe did this. These days we call it dream incubation.

What you discover about yourself – and your unconscious mind – may make the difference between succeeding and failing with your idea.

What you discover about yourself – and your unconscious mind – may make the difference between succeeding and failing with your idea.

If you awake from a dream with a eureka moment, or if you’re directly inspired by the storyline or dream metaphor to create a product, service, business, or work of art, go ahead! If you’d like to discover additional personal insight, set aside some time to explore and interpret your dream. What you discover about yourself – and your unconscious mind – may make the difference between succeeding and failing with your idea.

PS Have you ever been inspired by a dream to create something? Do share your story here!

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