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Episode 127 The Dream Show: Tell me the truth

Tell me the truth

Carolyn is my guest with a dream about a white cat who keeps running away, and a man who keeps saying ‘I don’t know if I should tell you the truth’. Carolyn is angry! The truth about what? And why won’t he tell her?

Listen as we discover a truth Carolyn is ready to understand, a conflict that has held her back for fear of … ah, but I’m not going to spoil the story for you! Enjoy the process, the careful questions – the kind of questions you can use to explore your own dreams – and the connections and deep insights that result.

The Dream Show, a free monthly podcast with Jane Teresa AndersonWe are all conditioned in many ways, from childhood onward, and analysing dreams can help us to see some of the absurdities in our personal conditioning. What to do with this insight? New awareness and applying dream alchemy combine to break the spell of unconscious conditioning (beliefs) that hold us back in life. Listen as Carolyn experiences this in this episode.

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(Our next show, episode 128, will be released in four weeks, on 27 July 2012.)

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Messages from the other side?

Messages from the other side?

When someone who has died appears to you in a dream, are they communicating with you from spirit, or are these dreams symbolic? Dreaming of a loved one after death can be the most precious, comforting, uplifting experience, especially when the dream is full of love, embraces, and tender messages, and when the person looks healthy, full of life, and perhaps even presents at a different age – younger for someone who died in old age, adult for a child who died young.

Many a bereaved dreamer cherishes such exquisite moments in a dream, and although they wake up to a world empty of their loved one, they draw on strengths from the night-time encounter and a feeling of receiving support from spirit to get through the early days.

People often feel devastated and abandoned when they discover their loved one is appearing in other people’s dreams, but not in their own.

People often feel devastated and abandoned when they discover their loved one is appearing in other people’s dreams, but not in their own.

Many more wish they could have just one such dream, and often feel devastated and abandoned when they discover their loved one is appearing in other people’s dreams, but not in their own.

On the other hand, many bereaved people have experienced distressing dreams where the deceased person, who was loving and kind in life, is completely different in dreams – angry, blaming, hurtful, controlling, or condemning. In other cases, people who were difficult in life continue to be difficult in dreams, often leaving the dreamer feeling the deceased person is controlling him and restraining him from moving on with life.

There are instances where accurate information has been communicated by the deceased in dreams, information, for example, about the circumstances of death that have been later verified, however these are extremely rare. Contact through dreams in the early days following death may sometimes be the case, but as time passes, you can be increasingly certain that these dreams are symbolic. If a loving person acts negatively in a dream, you can be certain your dream is symbolic.

When anger, abandonment and blame come up in your dreams, these are your own emotions being processed.

When anger, abandonment and blame come up in your dreams, these are your own emotions being processed.

Dreams of the deceased usually deal with grief and healing. For example, it is normal, during grieving, to feel angry with the person for dying and abandoning you, even though this is irrational. When anger, abandonment and blame come up in your dreams, these are your own emotions being processed. When forgiveness and letting go come up in these dreams, these reflect your own readiness to heal and move on, your own resting in peace.

Look at the person appearing in your dream as symbolising your loss, or your feelings about death, or your feelings about that person and the role they played in your life, and then see the rest of the dream as exploring and resolving these issues within yourself.

[Extract from 101 Dream Interpretation Tips, Jane Teresa Anderson]

Further reading: Dreams of death and the departed

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Episode 106 The Dream Show: Alien analyst

How can an alien help you to understand a dream? What’s the right thing to say to a horse as it angrily rears up above you and threatens to crash down upon you? And what’s the magical formula for finding a solution to a seemingly impossible challenge?

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Today’s show brings you a mix of dream interpretation tips, from the practical and light-hearted to the deeply analytical, and a touch of alchemy you can apply to bring you solutions when faced with difficulties.

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Episode 105 The Dream Show: Toltec tapestries

Janell transformed an angry fat lady into a melting green sludge. Hmm, well, you can do that in dreams! This particular green sludge moved along – in the way sludges do – to break open a chamber and reveal two Toltec tapestries and a pile of Janell’s old clothes.

How do you deal with anger in your life?

Listen in as Janell describes the rest of her colourful, magical dream, and as we relate it to her waking life and identify key issues and solutions to those issues.

Janell was excited to share news about her team’s dream social networking site, Dreamcatcher, at  www.dreamcatcher.net, so pop over there and explore!

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First though,  enjoy listening to my interpretation and Janell’s responses. Oh, and, by the way, you’ll love the contribution of the pink cat.

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Dream Alchemy – secret spells

I’m about to give you some magical formulae you can use to transform your life.

I’m about to give you some magical formulae you can use to transform your life.

I’m about to give you some magical formulae you can use to transform your life. They’re simple, yet powerful. They’re serious, and they work, but for a bit of fun I’ve arranged them as magic spells from an imaginary book of alchemical secrets. Before we delve in, though, let’s look at the theory so you understand why these work and how to apply them.

Imagine you dreamed of a huge dark cloud. The cloud was suspended above you, throwing its darkness and gloom all around. The air was oppressive, heavy, and still. What is the meaning of this dream?

You might have this dream if you were feeling oppressed by dark, gloomy, negative feelings. You might think about your dream and see that this is indeed true. You might then think about where these dark, gloomy, negative feelings are coming from. You might decide they’re coming from you and your negative thoughts about life. You might suddenly see that you have been going about your life dragging this negative outlook with you wherever you go. Other people in similar circumstances might see the sunny side or be uplifted by the silver lining in life’s challenges. Rather than being motivated to create something wonderful from the silver lining, your dream shows you bogged down in the heavy stillness of your negative outlook on life. Okay, so far so good. You have interpreted and understood your dream.

You may even go further and say the dark cloud is the gloom cast by a relationship break-up, job loss, or major disappointment. You may think about this and decide the gloom is your anger about the disappointment (like a thunderous cloud before an angry storm) or you might decide the heavy cloud is your unexpressed grief (like a cloud that hasn’t rained itself free of its tears).

Okay, so far even better. You have interpreted and understood your dream even more deeply. Is this enough then? Is this the power of dream interpretation?

Does it end here? Does going forward in your life understanding your gloomy, negative outlook help you to dispel it and substitute an uplifting, positive outlook in its place?

Maybe, maybe not. Sometimes awareness is powerful enough to enable you to make a change. For example, each time you feel the presence of the gloomy, black cloud pervading a situation you might think, “Enough! Where’s the silver lining? How can I look at my situation positively?” Some people can make the switch effectively. Many need a little extra magic to make the change.

It’s better to cry away the black cloud, to feel the grief and let it go, or to feel the anger and let it go, so that looking at the world positively becomes natural rather than forced.

It’s better to cry away the black cloud, to feel the grief and let it go, or to feel the anger and let it go, so that looking at the world positively becomes natural rather than forced.

Sometimes you cannot effectively make the change until you get in touch with associated emotions and work through them. For example, if you have not cried away your grief, then when you switch from negative to positive outlook you push your grief further down into your being and this will certainly give you discomfort at a later stage in your life. It’s better to cry away the black cloud, to feel the grief and let it go, or to feel the anger and let it go, so that looking at the world positively becomes natural rather than forced. If there’s no grief or anger in your way, then naturally things look good. If there’s still grief or anger hanging around, it’s hard work to keep remembering to switch on a positive outlook, and, besides, your grief or anger will keep returning in your dreams until you hear it, feel it, learn from it, and let it go.

So how can you do the magical bit to move from simply understanding your dream to transforming your life in a long-lasting (deeply healing) way? The solution is dream alchemy (those alchemical spells).

Dream alchemy is the magic of transforming symbols from your dream. In this example, you might visualise transforming the gloomy, black cloud by letting it rain itself away over a dry field, causing beautiful sunny flowers to bloom. Dream alchemy practices always sound far too simple, silly even, but they work because they involve symbols that your unconscious dreaming mind understands. When you do dream alchemy, you are talking the language of your unconscious mind and it is listening, responding, and transforming. These alchemical spells, correctly done, change the beliefs you carry that are affecting the way you see the world and the way you act in the world. When these things change – when you see the world differently and act in the world differently – your experience of life changes accordingly. In other words, your life changes for the better.

You can get quite creative with your dream alchemy practices. In the example, I added the flowers blooming to ensure that something wonderful blossomed from the release of grief.

You can get quite creative with your dream alchemy practices. In the example, I added the flowers blooming to ensure that something wonderful blossomed from the release of grief.

If you had the black cloud dream and you did the dream alchemy visualisation described above according to the correct method you may first feel the grief or the anger, but this will feel deeply cathartic and healing. You will naturally traverse through these feelings, and emerge feeling light and free. From there forward, you will move through the world in a different way.

You can get quite creative with your dream alchemy practices. In the example, I added the flowers blooming to ensure that something wonderful blossomed from the release of grief.

The key to designing the best dream alchemy practice is to understand your dream first. When you understand your dream you gain self-awareness, a precious gift, and when you understand your dream you are best-equipped to pick the right symbol to transform through dream alchemy.

As a general guide, be inspired by these secret formulae from my imaginary book ‘Alchemical secrets’.

Alchemical Secrets

Dream
dark cloud,
understood by dreamer as negative outlook due to grief

Alchemy
let the cloud rain its tears away over a desert, making flowers bloom

*

Dream
starving horse,
understood by dreamer as a passionate energy you are not feeding

Alchemy
feed the horse until you can feel its strength and passion in your body

*

Dream
old man close to death,
understood by dreamer as a belief you need to put to rest

Alchemy
embrace the man and thank him for all he has taught you

*

Dream
old man close to death,
understood by dreamer as old values you want to revive

Alchemy
give the man a job or role that restores his sense of value and vitality

*

Dream
going round in circles,
understood by dreamer as needing a new approach

Alchemy
half way round the circle take a straight route to an exciting place

*

Dream
unable to fly beyond power lines,
understood by dreamer as trapped by power games

Alchemy
fly around the power lines to the place you want to be

*

Dream
shaky ground,
understood by dreamer as losing your sense of confidence

Alchemy
make the ground firm and feel its solidity beneath your feet

*

Dream
shaky ground,
understood by dreamer as changes around you feeling exciting

Alchemy
shake that ground into where you would like to be

*

Get the picture? As you can see from the dreams of the old man close to death and the dreams of the shaky ground, the secret is to understand your dream before creating your dream alchemy practice and casting your alchemical spell. (Two people may each dream of shaky ground, but the different details in their dreams reveal the different meanings.)

Remember to check the detailed methods for doing your dream alchemy practices, and if you need a little help from me in understanding your dreams or creating dream alchemy practices you can consult me by Skype or phone.

[Copyright Jane Teresa Anderson, July 2007. First published as a Dream Sight article.]

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Episode 70 The Dream Show: Two pregnant men

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Episode 70 of our free weekly podcast, THE DREAM SHOW, is now up.

Kylie is my guest with a dream about two pregnant men, one, a professor, is giving birth and she is assisting.

The other, her partner, is pregnant but … who is the mother? He’s cheated on her, and it could have been with any number of women.

She’s angry – very angry – until she realises that this baby will belong to both of them. They will be a family, and that’s exciting.

What does it all mean and how does the interpretation assist Kylie with a current dilemma?

Listen in and find out! You’ll also learn some new interpretation tips and dream reading skills.

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Episode 57 The Dream Show: Anatomy lesson

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My guest today is Kate who dreamed she chopped off her leg so she could look inside the calf muscle.

She sort of managed to put it back together but, well, you know, the leg bone’s connected to the ankle bone and that ankle bone, she realised, would need microsurgery to get it working again.

Along the way she got angry with her healer and glimpsed a scorpion, momentarily, like a flashcard across her dream.

Meanwhile, in waking life, Kate has been on medication for a six week migraine, but it’s not working for her.

Can we fit these puzzle pieces together? You bet we can! Listen to how everything relates: the dream, the migraine, Kate’s waking life.

And, of course, we uncover an unconscious core belief that needs to be transformed, and we create a dream alchemy visualisation to do this. Enjoy witnessing the process of interpretation and alchemy, and the intricate ways in which mind and body communicate with us in waking life and in dreams.

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Episode 55 The Dream Show: Angry dog

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Margaret is my guest with a recurring dream about being back at her old workplace, faced with a wild, angry dog.

She’s had the dream for ten years but this week, it changed! Her new dream had a happy ending.

Why the sudden change in this long term recurring dream? What happened in Margaret’s life, ten years ago, to trigger this recurring dream, and what happened last week to finally deliver a resolution to her dream storyline?

Listen in through the laughs and the serious stuff as Margaret and I trace her story from childhood to last week’s breakthrough.

If you’ve ever wondered why recurring dreams tend to take you back to the past, listen to this episode. And if you’ve ever wondered how to put an end to a recurring unresolved dream/issue in your life, listen to this episode. And if you want to understand how dream alchemy works and how it feels … you’ve got it: listen to this episode.

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Episode 41 The Dream Show: Mirror, mirror, on the wall

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Kitty, my guest today, brings a dream featuring an unusable toilet (how many times have you dreamed of a toilet you can’t use?), a vertical ladder that’s hard work to climb and impossible to exit at the top, and a feeling of increasing anger and frustration.

What does it mean, and what does Snow White (“Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who is the fairest of them all”) have to do with the interpretation?

If you like a good mystery, join Kitty and I as we do the detective work, following the dream clues to an enlightening conclusion.

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